Virtual Spirituality

Why talk about spirituality? ‘Why spirituality?’ I’ve heard that response a number of times as I’ve explained the purpose of the Big E forum on youth ministry in September. Young people are growing up in an environment that allows for ‘spirituality’ at the same time as it ignores organised religion. Each person is encouraged to explore their own ‘spirituality’. Schools, hospitals and medical centres are being encouraged to consider the spiritual well being and development of young people. In response to these trends we could take the line that the only spirituality worth talking about is the work of the Holy Spirit in the lives of Christians. I appreciate the concern that we don’t be come so caught up in the general vagueness of spirituality that we lose our distinctive Christian perspective. But there’s more to it than that. Another approach, which I find more helpful, is to recognise that

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Youth Suicide

As we prepared for this issue of Crumbs, I’ve examined again my own teenage years, and my survival. I didn’t quite attempt suicide. Though about it. Took a few careless risks with my life. But I’m still here. One of my classmates didn’t make it into his 20s. I’ll never forget the bewilderment we as a class felt as we gathered at his funeral. Mary-Jane’s article “Why, Miss” rings true for me. In preparing the resource reviews, I struggled with one of the tensions referred to by John Hebenton and Jacky Sewell. “How do we help young people in our care choose life without making death an option”? There are sensitivities. In order to move away from the criminal connotations of the past, we haven’t used the phrase “commit suicide”. Instead, the professional terms used are generally “attempted” and “completed” suicide. Another issue is avoiding using graphic details or glorifying

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Difficult Behavior

Difficult Behavior – we’ve all seen it happening. A ministry that started so well suddenly finds itself hijacked by a kid who breaks unwritten rules repeatedly acting or commenting in a manner that seems to depict anything but Christian love in action. Suddenly someone is on the outer and the group is asking for a good reason why s/he should be allowed to stay. Scriptures leap to mind about Jesus’ frequent and irritating habit of hanging out with such undesirables. When his mates tried to help him by fending off the ankle-biters he even defended them by saying he wanted them around. That was OK for him of course: he had that amazing ability to get the best out of people. They didn’t seem to worry him. I mean, he could heal them. He spoke an insightful truth and they converted. Easy! he didn’t have to put up with his

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